Monday, September 1, 2008

Child's Play

One of my favorite things is to watch my kids playing. I like to play with them too, but it is so much more fun to just observe, especially when they don't realize you are watching. That's how I get a lot of quotable Calvin material. I am always amazed with what, and how they play. I know that cliche, if you give a kid a fancy toy they play with the toy for ten minutes, then play with box for a week. Well, it is so true. While my kids enjoy their fancy toys, they find fun in the simplest of things. I could not even begin to count the number of hours they have spent playing with rocks in the creek. It really is one of their favorite activities. Sometimes they just like to throw them and watch the splash. Other times, they like to find different shapes and turn them into things. They like to find the really flat ones and pretend it's a blackboard, then find a pencil-like one to draw with. They've had many conversations on rock "cell phones" as well. The last time we were at the creek they each found one that looked (in their eyes) like a guitar. So, I took a "pencil" and drew strings and a sound hole and such. They sang and played guitar for a long time. Then we had a full day of puns about them being a "rock" band and such. Most boys have an uncanny ability to turn any object into a firearm. My boys do their share of that. But even more often they turn every object into a guitar. And in the event there is no object, they have both perfected their "air-guitar.". They like to have concerts and sing songs. Calvin has become pretty good at songwriting. A few weeks ago he was sitting around with his harmonica singing the blues. He spontaneously wrote a blues song for an attorney friend, Mr. Dan. He would sing a line something like this: "stuck in court all day long, don't got no way out". Then he would blow on the harmonica. I laughed so hard that I cried.

Now that Corban is talking more, his play is getting more fun too. He has a game where he will say, "Eat bugs?". He will pretend to eat like Cookie Monster. Then he will make his word for dirty which is mostly un-spellable, but would look something like this: "Cccchhhhhkkkk". He will then say, "Spit out". He can play that game all day.
The sad thing is, I feel I have missed so many opportunities to see them play. There have been so many times I felt too busy, like the dishes or laundry or whatever chore was so urgent or overwhelming. I know this stage of play won't last forever, so I'm trying hard to enjoy it as often as I can.

3 comments:

Jennifer said...

Matt has returned from the creek with numerous "knives" and "guns" he's found! There is something in a boy's blood that is prone to make a weapon out of anything! They are definately designed by God to be warriors!

Fort making is another game that my kids have never tired of. And even though I have designed Matt's bunk bed to have a built-in fort (fabric that can be stretched across the front to close off the bottom bunk whenever he wants), they still prefer to get out every spare blanket in the house and design their own tents and forts, stringing them up from every possible angle. They made one yesterday and actually charged a 25-cent admission price to go through it!!! Some nerve, especially considering I get stuck folding up all those blankets!!

-Jen

Chris said...

Speaking of knives and guns and "Child's Play." Does anyone remember a movie by that title, "Child's Play?" What was his name...Charles, Charlie, Chaz...it's on the tip of my tongue...!

s said...

Chris, I believe that would be Chucky!